I tend to get obsessive...

I tend to get a bit obsessive over some things and it's like silly random things.

1) Online profiles. I can only do them for a week or two and then it's too much. Why? Cuz I obsessively refresh the inbox page to see who has sent me a msg. Cuz you never know who might send you something. But then I wait awhile to respond, so it doesn't appear that I'm obsessively clicking. ;)

2) I just posted my first facebook event and have already found myself checking to see who's coming, who's a maybe, and who's not much too often. It's a month away...this is gonna be a daily routine.

3) I've just added a new one. It's called Omegle. You go to the site and pairs you up with a stranger to start a conversation. It's like when you're on the bus and someone just starts talking to you and you continue the convo and then it abruptly ends. The person you're talking to is called a 'stranger' and you are called 'you.' Here's a few of my conversations so far...

Stranger: So let's have sex
You: lol...what?
Stranger: Don't you want have sex?
You: why do you assume I want sex
Stranger: Don't we all
You: disconnected

Stranger: I no want ppl from Taiwan
You: okay....
Stranger: where a u from?
You: canada
Stranger: disconnected

Now I'm on a mission to have a meaningful conversation on this random application.

What are you obsessing with this week?

I'll only come, if I know who's coming...

Admit it, if you have facebook, you check out who's going to an event. Now further admit that based on the attractiveness of the collective, this has been a deciding factor about attending said event.

While facebook is great for marketing, it's also horrible for this reason alone. Is it my fault if my event doesn't draw anybody that you want to fuck? You know, there's great potential that somebody will just randomly show up and they will be very much fuckable.

A recent private invite to a dinner party hasn't allowed me the opportunity to see the guest list. Alas, it's not a facebook event. Questions to the host as to the guest list have been unanswered. It appears that everybody is asking the same question of him. Why do we have this need to know?

For me, it's simple. I'm not good in large crowds of people, where intimate conversation can't be had. Put me on a stage in front of thousands and I can do my thing. I can strut, speak, and sex it up. Put me in a room full of a strangers and watch me cower in the corner huddled in the fetal position. :)

So when I get invited to an event, I like to know how many allies that I will have there. Plus, I like to know total number of people. A party of no more than 6 means an opportunity to engage in real conversation with others. I hate questions of 'where do u work?', 'what school do u go to?', and 'where'd u grow up?' I much prefer to engage about current events, your life's present purpose and favourite sexual positions. ;)

What about you? Do you need to know what's going on at a party or can you just show up? Have you ever only gone to a party cuz you knew some ppl, but didn't like the host?